also, thought I should add a disclaimer: please don't go after Jack
TW: Grooming mentioned.
Because the person mentioned in this entry is trying to cover up his crimes by wiping all of his DMs with me, I have compiled screenshots of them all into the document below.
About JackI'm going to go right into what happened. DPEV (Who later rebranded to "Jack"), someone whom I started dating back in 2022 and was well known at one point among my mutuals, groomed his previous ex and hid it from the public entirely. Since 2022, he had kept this hidden away in DMs, and now in 2026 he's attempted to delete everything as a way to completely run from his past.
The screenshots I provided show everything that happened behind the scenes, the knowledge of grooming from Jack, the manipulation he used to silence me to keep his past behavior unseen. My relationship with Jack went up until Oct. 2025, and it was nothing short of awful. We constantly fought and hardly got along with each other. Sadly I was already dating him before I realized he groomed his ex, who was also my mutual back then. I was incredibly disturbed by the information for years, but was too scared to break up with Jack. So I stayed with him, even though I hated every second. I still regret that to this day.
Eventually Jack ended things because I didn't trust him and blocked me to avoid all accountability. My healing journey from that point on was not a steady one, and I haphazardly tried to tell people about what happened before I was ready to do so. I later abandoned my old Discord account about a month after we split and kept it as an archive to keep access to all the old DMs just in case. The DMs stayed intact up until 3/19/26, the day I noticed Jack went back and erased them all. Jack will stop at nothing to make sure that his terrible actions stay tucked away from the public, even if that means erasing the past to make it happen. Narcissists like him care about image and nothing more.
I am hoping this will be the last time I have to deal with this person. They have been a constant source of stress and pain in the lives of mine and my friends and I'm ready to finally move forward past it all. Please be careful who you befriend and date, and if you notice large red flags in your relationship with someone, get as far away from them as you can before it's too late.